Resolving Disputes with Strength, Strategy, and Mediation.

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  • By: Anna Niemann, Esq.
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In this article, you can discover…

  • How mediation helps protect confidentiality.
  • Whether you can choose your mediator before moving forward.
  • How to set realistic expectations prior to mediation.

Does Mediation Provide Confidentiality Protections?

In California, mediation is legally protected by confidentiality laws. This means you can have some assurance that you can engage in open discussions without fear that your words will be used against you in court. Under California law, everything said during mediation—including negotiations, mediator discussions, and shared statements—is not admissible in court.

If one party attempts to introduce mediation-related communications in a legal proceeding, any participant can object, and the court will typically exclude that evidence. This, in turn, fosters an environment where you can negotiate freely without concerns about damaging your case should your attempt at mediation fail.

Will I Have Control Over Who Is Selected As The Mediator?

Unlike a judge, who is assigned to a case, a mediator must be mutually agreed upon by both parties. This gives both sides control over who facilitates their dispute resolution. Typically, attorneys negotiate and select the mediator, but parties can also research and evaluate potential mediators before agreeing. Factors to consider include:

  • Experience in the relevant area of law
  • Reputation and reviews from past cases
  • Neutrality and fairness
  • Communication style and problem-solving approach

The intention behind allowing participants to choose the mediator is for both to feel comfortable with the neutral’s skills and background, helping to increase the chances of a successful resolution.

Does Mediation Provide More Control Over The Outcome Than A Trail?

In litigation or arbitration, a judge or arbitrator applies the law to determine a winner and a loser. But in mediation, both parties can create their own resolution through negotiation. This flexibility that courts and arbitration cannot provide is invaluable. Instead of strict legal rulings, parties can agree on practical and creative solutions, such as:

  • A formal apology
  • Custom agreements on property, custody, or business operations
  • Unique financial arrangements or commitments

Since both parties must agree to the outcome, neither side is forced into an unfavorable decision, making it more likely they will comply with the agreement.

What Steps Can I Take To Ensure That The Mediated Agreement Holds Up In California?

To make sure your mediated agreement is enforceable, it needs to be properly documented and comply with California legal requirements. Key things to keep in mind and steps to follow include:

  • Documented: The settlement terms must be clearly written and signed by both parties.
  • Legal Basis: The document should cite applicable California laws that confirm its enforceability.
  • Court Enforcement Clause: The agreement should specify that a California court has the authority to enforce it if needed.
  • Clear Terms And Deadlines: Include specific obligations, such as payments, document exchanges, or other commitments, along with deadlines.
  • Copies For All Parties: Ensure that each party receives a copy of the signed agreement for their records.

Following these steps will dramatically increase the likelihood that your agreement remains binding and enforceable under California law.

Helping Clients Set Realistic Expectations

One of the wonderful things about mediation is that this is an opportunity for both parties to talk about their case with somebody other than their own lawyer, family, or their own circle of friends and acquaintances. Mediation provides a neutral perspective on a case, enabling you to understand both the strengths and weaknesses of your position.

A mediator is not an advocate but an experienced third party who can offer insights beyond what a client hears from their lawyer or support system.

As such, I draw on the following to manage help manage my client’s expectations:

  • Recognizing The Mediator’s Role: Mediators offer honest, unbiased assessments to help parties make informed decisions.
  • Understanding Trial Risks: A “best day in court” is never guaranteed. Mediation avoids the unpredictability of litigation and seeks a fair resolution.
  • Preparing For Compromise: Mediation is about mutual agreement, not total victory. The goal is to find a balanced, practical resolution both parties can accept.
  • Trusting The Process: Try to build a relationship with your attorney where they feel comfortable working with them to anticipate what your mediator may highlight. Stay open to new perspectives along the way, too.

Maintaining a sober and realistic approach to mediation will empower you to focus on resolution rather than risk a gamble in court.

Still Have Questions? Ready To Get Started?

For more information on the Mediation process in California, an initial consultation is your next best step. Get the information and legal answers you are seeking by calling (916) 777-0943 today.